A few days ago I was chatting with a friend and we talked about his past relationship with the guy who was just lame. So I am on the outside looking in yes, but I said there and listen to everything he that was going on and…I felt bad my friend wasted a year and some change on a guy who didn’t know if he wanted to be with him or not. Like wtf?
I think often we get caught up into a thought and take it from there. Like “Oh if I stick around and make him or her feel wanted, that will keep interest and keep them around” Screw that and screw them! LOL I am just not about to do certain shit to keep your attention dude. Either you really like me in that way or you don’t. There were plenty of guys I liked within the last year and sure I texted them or called first but after so long, that got lame. It’s like suddenly a light went off and I asked myself. “Ummm, why am I always the first one to make the incentive.” Dude like really. And I just stop texting. It goes this way with people in general not just dating someone. Remember your time is just as precious as theirs.
Maybe its my only child gene or the fact that sometimes I don’t feel like being bothered, but I give people a three-day wing lol. It sounds petty but at the same time you should know your worth and don’t be desperate for anyone time.
So snobs I ask you this, have you ever been on the receiving end of this? If so how did you handle it? Comment below and share.
Until next time,